Monday, April 22, 2013

Our Vision of Ourselves.....


Hey there Shiners and Shinettes….I am so excited to be writing this post because it excites my life about how we look at ourselves these days.  As we all know I am all about being positive and this post is just like the rest just with a little twist.
 
Take a look at the clip its very important to the post!

 
I have a question for you, if I asked you to describe yourself I wonder if you would be to brutally honest with how you describe yourself?  I wonder about all of the little things that you would speak about in detail that you feel that describes how you look.

To many times, we spend so much time; picking ourselves apart that we totally forget that we are all actually beautifully made.  We pick ourselves apart to the point that we no longer look at ourselves as being beautiful.  It actually, gets so bad that, when someone gives us a compliment, that we have no idea how to accept it for what was just said to us. 

My question is why are we so hard on ourselves that we have no longer become comfortable in our own skin, or in how we look?  Why do we try so hard to look like another instead of being the beautiful person that we are?  Why is it so hard for us to believe that someone actually sees the beauty that WE don’t see-but should see on a daily basis??   We will find a flaw within ourselves so fast it will make your head spin. 

Darlings, its time!  It’s time to be comfortable in the skin that you’re in and stop picking ourselves apart.  It’s time to see yourself as the beautiful being that you are.  It’s time to stop being so hard on how you look.  It’s time to stop picking at your weight, your hair, eyes, legs, hands, and anything else that you can think of that you would just love to point out that YOU feel that makes you unattractive.  The fact is that IT’S NOT TRUE! WE have done this, we have allowed this from others, and TODAY it stops. 

If you are bold enough, stand in the mirror and just take a look at you!  Take a long look at yourself and love YOU to the fullest.   At one point in my life I did just what I want you darlings to stop doing.  I allowed someone to make me feel that I was not beautiful, when actually I have always been.  It wasn’t until I left that particular situation that I found my inner and outer beauty once again.   The things is…it never left…I just thought it did! 

Pssssttttt….Can I tell you something??  YOUR BEAUTY NEVER LEFT!  IT’S LOOKING BACK AT YOU ON A DAILY BASIS!  So with these words, I say, GET COMFY….PUT YOUR BEAUTY ON!
"WE"ARE BEAUTIFUL
 
Ms. Positivity
 
 

3 comments:

Janeane Davis said...

What a great idea! We are beautiful just as we are. I talk myself into this each morning and it puts a little strut in my step! I taught my children to say, "I am *** and I love me, God loves me, I am special." We all need to recognize the beauty we have just as we are!

Melissa Lopez said...

Yessss Janeane!! I love that you teach your lil ones to love & accept themselves!! I tell my daughter & son this daily and myself. We are our most brutal critics and can be so down about how we look at ourselves!! We are all wonderfully & beautifully made....WE ARE & always will be BEAUTIFUL!!

Ms. Positivity!!

grandmaof02 said...

Thanks I needed this, my husband tells me I'm beautiful and I'm like what ever your just saying that,I don't know how to respond..